Divorce is always difficult. It is a long process and it is emotionally and financially depleting. Before a couple considers a divorce, there is a long history of arguments, disagreements, and sleepless nights. Having to have covid restrictions and stay home orders has changed many routines across the world.
Spending more time with a partner and having additional worries, such as work-related matters, childcare, online learning, is a process the world has needed to adapt. Some have managed better than others however, needless to say, it has been difficult.
If you are considering a divorce during these times, divorcing may have several challenges. If your spouse has lost their job or business this may add a few more concerns. However, based on the children and the length of the marriage given the situation several things should be considered and perhaps the need to revisit the situation at a later time during or after a divorce. Considering the challenges all face during this covid time, reductions to child support or alimony may exist temporarily under mutual agreement. Try to work out your differences prior to filing.
Most want to know the fastest way to divorce without considering all options. For those who have lost their jobs during covid, this doesn’t imply you get to walk away from your child support or alimony obligation there are many factors that need to be considered before determining an amount temporarily. Covid-19 has made divorce more complicated and not considering all options can have negative consequences for all involved.
Before making the life-changing decision consider how would two households manage these changes financially and emotionally and how will the children feel safe in either environment. Before seeking legal advice and separating your shared information. Consider mediating and negotiating a temporary solution. Lawyers can always divorce you and be the responsible party to your final agreement however, negotiating and considering the current living expenses and arrangements may help both have a temporary settlement until the divorce is finalized or other agreements are made. Divorce is always life-changing and divorcing during covid may complicate things further. Having two households does not give you the same lifestyle either had while married. Having two households includes financial struggles and changes during covid or not, divorce changes the family structure and the finances. Consider these challenges prior to filing for a divorce. Keep in mind the reason you want a divorce in the first place and it’s most likely because both can’t agree on major issues that are important to either one of you. Focus on the financial need and the stability of all involved.